HOW A JILTED EX-LOVER COLLUDED WITH A FREELANCER AND PLOTTED THE DOWNFALL OF A POPULAR RADIO HOST

THROWBACK:When CBC RADIO HOST Jian Ghomeshi broke
the interwebs.On a long post he posted on his FACEBOOK PAGE reveals forbidden confessions.
After reading this confession,biznerati learnt that some women are evil.Know who you are dating?What will she do in the event of a breakup?These are things you
should considered before dating her.You might end up dating a psycho.See for yourself.Here is the confession from Jian ghomeshi

"Today I was fired from the company where I've been working for almost 14 years – stripped from my show, barred from the building and separated from my colleagues. I was given the choice to walk away quietly and to publicly
suggest that this was my decision. But I am not going to do that. Because that would be untrue. Because I’ve been fired. And because I've done nothing wrong.

I’ve been fired from the CBC because of the risk of my private sex life being made public as a result of a campaign of false allegations
pursued by a jilted ex girlfriend and a freelance writer.As friends and family of mine, you are owed the truth.I have commenced legal proceedings against the CBC, what’s important to me is that
you know what happened and why.Forgive me if what follows may be shocking to some.

   I have always been interested in  a variety of activities in the bedroom but I only participate in sexual practices that are mutually agreed upon,consensual, and exciting for both partners.About two years ago I started seeing a woman in her  late 20s. Our relationship was affectionate,
casual and passionate. We saw each other on and off over the period of a year and began
engaging in adventurous forms of sex that included role-play, dominance and submission. We discussed our interests at length before engaging in rough sex (forms of BDSM). We talked about using safe words and regularly checked in with each other about our comfort levels. She encouraged our role-play and often was the initiator. We joked about our relations being like a mild form of Fifty Shades of Grey or a story from Lynn Coady's Giller-Prize winning book last year. I don’t wish to get  into any more detail because it is truly not anyone's business what two consenting adults do.I have never discussed my private life before.Sexual preferences are a human right.

Despite a strong connection between us it became clear to me that our on-and-off dating
was unlikely to grow into a larger relationship and I ended things in the beginning of this year.

She was upset by this and sent me messages indicating her disappointment that I would not commit to more, and her anger that I was seeing others.

After this, in the early spring there began a campaign of harassment, vengeance and
demonization against me that would lead to months of anxiety.It came to light that a woman had begun anonymously reaching out to people that I had dated (via Facebook) to tell them she had been a victim of abusive relations with me. In other words, someone was reframing what had been an ongoing consensual relationship as
something nefarious. I learned – through one of my friends who got in contact with this person – that someone had rifled through my phone on one
occasion and taken down the names of any woman I had seemed to have been dating in
recent years. 

This person had begun methodically contacting them to try to build a story against me.
Increasingly, female friends and ex-girlfriends of mine told me about these attempts to smear me.Someone also began colluding with a freelance writer who was known not to be a fan
of mine and, together, they set out to try to find corroborators to build a case to defame me. She found some sympathetic ears by painting herself as a victim and turned this into a campaign. The writer boldly started contacting my friends
acquaintances and even work colleagues – all of whom came to me to tell me this was happening and all of whom recognized it as a trumped up
way to attack me and undermine my reputation.

Everyone contacted would ask the same question, if I had engaged in non-consensual
behavior why was the place to address this the media?

The writer tried to peddle the story and, at one point, a major Canadian media publication
did due diligence but never printed a story. One assumes they recognized these attempts to recast my sexual behaviour were fabrications. Still,the spectre of mud being flung onto the Internet where online outrage can demonize someone before facts can refute false allegations has been what I've had to live with.And this leads us to today and this moment.

I’ve lived with the threat that this stuff would be thrown out there to defame me. And I would sue. But it would do the reputational damage to
me it was intended to do (the ex has even tried to contact me to say that she now wishes to
refute any of these categorically untrue allegations). But with me bringing it to light, in the coming days you will prospectively hear about how I engage in all kinds of unsavory aggressive acts in the bedroom. And the implication may be made that this happens non- consensually. And that will be a lie. But it will be salacious gossip in a world driven by a hunger for "scandal". And there will be those who choose to believe it and to hate me or to laugh at me. And there will be an attempt to pile on. And there will be the claim that there are a few women involved (those who colluded with my ex) in an attempt to show a "pattern of behaviour". And it will be based in lies but damage will be done. But I am telling you this story in the hopes that the truth will,
finally, conquer all.